Saturday, March 12, 2011

The present

Somehow I realize that in the next few months I'll be hitting on a quarter-life age, or some people prefer "crisis" as the last name of the phase.

Maybe I won't be able to think about having a tremendous fun without counting the expenses, or driving along to nowhere city with noone to worry about back home,, yes, it's about time to calculate everything, weddings, house, car, everthing,, suck to say, as it is to do them.

Some people is fortunate enough to have all of those without having to work their asses off,, cos they have a "lucky" label on their forehead on the day they were born,, nothing to be jealous of, I suppose, cos we were born and destined to do something,, so we just have to figure out how to have a good and happy life with what we have. We need to never complaint and just make steps to the future, while working hard on achieving the goals. Give gratitudes more than regrets,, cos I know how lives cud be hard sometimes, but how much bad it is, there's always a twinkling stars,, ;)

Have a good day people, ♥ u.
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Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Love 041010

Dear my super-man,

I just want to say, happy 2nd anniversary. May God lead us to an amazing journey of our relationship and keep us away from any obstacles. Hope we both could make each other better and can always appreciate each other. Love is our foundation, and with love I pour my heart on you.

I love you from my deepest heart Eros.

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Positive

Terdengar simple saat diucapkan oleh seseorang, "stay positive ya,, jangan pikirin yg buruk2", tapi dalam implementasinya, orang mungkin sampai harus memutar otak untuk mencari strategi menjadi positif. Begitu pula dengan saya. :)

2 hari ini saya sangat terinspirasi oleh seorang trainer yang ternyata merupakan kakak kelas satu almamater dan satu jurusan di kampus, cuma bedanya beliau angkatan 85, saya seperti anak kecil di depan dia :P
Beliau adalah mas Harsono, training customer satisfaction yang sangat handal dalam bidangnya. Beliau dapat menyampaikan intisari dengan bahasa tubuh yg menarik yang bisa membuat orang jadi berempati dengan cerita2 yang disampaikannya.

Insight terkuat yang saya dapatkan adalah definisi kebahagiaan yang paling tinggi dan menakjubkan. Yaitu "meaningful happiness". Apakah itu meaningful happiness? adalah ketika kita dapat menghargai, memaknai dengan indah, menikmati dengan dalam setiap detik yang kita jalani dalam hidup kita. Where? DIMANAPUN. When? KAPANPUN. Menakjubkan bukan? Sebagaimana kebahagiaan itu bisa kita ciptakan dari dalam kita sendiri hanya dengan mencari hikmah dan bersyukur atas tiap detik yg kita jalankan. Dengan itu, inshaAllah, kita bisa selalu bahagia dalam menjalankan hari2 kita. :)

Well, that's it for now, saya harap dengan saya menulis ini, saya bisa selalu mengingat insight-insight yang menakjubkan yang dipaparkan oleh mas harsono. :)

Cheerios
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Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Mood booster

An incredible moment for me now is when I can finally know, precisely, what I wanna be in the future. Am not there yet, fyi.

The greatest moment is when I can finally know which path should I take to reach my goal. Am not there yet, fyi.

All I am doing now is struggling, to find the best specific, measurable, achievable, reliable and time-based (SMART) goal for me. And that my friend, is not AT ALL easy.

I gotta say, that it is very good if u can find your goal sooner. I mean, younger. Now I'm almost 24, and yet I haven't found my best and SMART goal.

start with a scratch (I gotta try), and draw a line from it.
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KEEEEWWWLLLLLL!!!!

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Mobile blogging

If this can really work, I'll be very much happy!!!
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Thursday, November 29, 2007

Something for the 2.31 am thoughts..

"I wish i could stop putting my blues on you"

A lesson that i forgot, suddenly my cheerful yet bubbly Barbie mate came to Bandung to visit us, people who forget. "Something about dignity", she said, "woman's dignity". We, women, sometimes forget about how to play this game. And so did i.

Today D was crying in her room, she cried about how her boyfriend lied to D but yet still doesnt want D to break him up. Classic. Little miss Barbie with her high-pitched voice came to the room, so there were 5 of us, sat on the bed, tried to listen.

Men dont make mistakes, women and children do. I heard this from somewhere, i forgot, haha.

God has given us, women, the greatest gift called emotion. We are free to cry, free to laugh, free to be sad or anything yet men always have to think before they do it all. But then, when you realize how this gift has turned out to be your biggest enemy, then it is just nothing but sucks.

So, Barbie told me about something i nearly forget, A woman's heart is like the deepest ocean. So whatever you feel, sad, mad or anything, just smile. Because smile is actually the most powerful weapon for women. People doesnt have to know about what im feeling. Get busy, whatever, just do something that keeps u smiling. And at night, you can do anything to express your feeling. When morning comes, do another smile.

It is just a reminder,,,